Since the time of antiquity, "A man needs respect, woman need love."
Judging from such a premise, we go to the caveman.
The caveman is a provider that will go hunting in the wild. The only weapon that makes a caveman, which is timid and fearful, to be able to hunt the saber-tooth tiger, which is fiercer, stronger and meaner than him, is his ego.
It is this ego, that makes man survive all this while and being able to provide for his family.
Therefore, remove ego from a man and he becomes "half-man."
Woman, on the other hand, are born to love their children, that is why we are classified under the group mammals, a warm-blooded species that cared for their young. A woman will do everything for the love of her offspring. That's why she will give all her love to her children. The saying goes that "a female tigress, no matter how fierce, will not eat her own offspring." be true to the proverbs.
As the law of the land says "to be able to give love, you need to have a source of love that flows through it. The source of love is someone or something that she can rely on, for her to be a giver; the woman loves most, the guy that can be her provider, savior, and protector, which is her source of inspiration as well.
Let us go back to our world now, every one of us man and woman, strife to be excellent.
The guy that strife to be excellent will be an Alpha Male and the woman that strife to excel will be a Queen Bee.
If an Alpha Male met a Queen Bee, life will be catastrophic. Either, the alpha male or queen bee surrender his or her dominion or the marriage will never work.
This is because marriage, must be a synergistic work of two people in love, this is what we call uni-work - in unity we work.
However, if two people were working or giving command on the marriage ship, the marriage will not work. This is because two people working on the marriage ship is known as di-work and di-work is another word for divorce in marriage.
In this ship, there must be a captain and a helper.
The captain of the ship must be knowledgeable and wise to garner respect, as the saying goes "respect is earned, not commanded."
The helper must be an all-rounder for the captain; sharing all his dark secret, trump and failure.: "His woman; being his lover, mother, and daughter at the same time."
Behind every man, is a great woman.
This is acknowledged well since time antiquity in the Malay Archipelago, "Taat pada Ayah, Sayang pada Mak." Literally translated into "respect your father, love your mother."
Moral of the story: Man need respect, woman need love."
Be Bless,
Dr Lion.
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