Yearning to be a child again to feel complete.

Since the start of time, all of us play by the script that society molds us to be.

That is why, we are never happy and not emotionally mature, even though, we are aging and intellectually mature.

Society dictates that we must work hard, be kind, be punctual, be responsible, be good and we must not do this, that and a myriad of things that society censored.

However, society does not allow us, to grow emotionally mature at our pace.

We need to grow through various emotional stages of maturity, to be a real complete person.

If a child does not mature, he will stay in the mentality that he failed to mature and does not grow up to be a well-balanced adult.

For an example, addiction to biting of fingers is a failure to mature at biting stage of infancy and an addiction to smoking is a failure to mature, at the sucking stage, at infancy.

We might show adulthood, but deep inside, our emotional maturity is not there.

We need to let our emotion mature, so that, we are able, to overcome our fear, anger, addiction and a need to please others.

Ideally, we should live by our own script and not living on the script of others anymore.

This will make us mature emotionally and not stress by the way society needs us to be anymore.

We will only be mature emotionally, if we are doing, what we love and not, what we are supposed to do.

We only excel in things that we have the passion to do and we will feel complete, that's is why we have been advised by the psychologist to advocate oneself with a hobby that we can engross our time with and forget our problem as a short cure for stress.

In an ideal condition, a child should be given the reasons or hindsight of the consequences of making a wrong choice and to lead from lawlessness to righteousness with reasoning rather than to instill fear and obliged the child to follow the script of the parents or society.

A child should be explained about the consequences behind a certain addictive behavior and why it is not desirable rather than to censor them like playing with fire or sharp objects.

This allows the child and the child in us to grow to be a man of reasoning, integrity and emotionally mature.

We need to be a child again to rewrite our script, to relearn and be emotionally mature.

Moral of the story: To be a child again is to be reborn and to face all our deep problems or addiction at the root level, which was adherent since childhood, with reasoning, to transform our emotion, from the son of a beast to son of man.

Be Bless,

Dr Lion.